In the heart of our cities, something exciting is happening. People are finding new ways to connect in places where the focus isn't on drinking or dining. Gyms, running clubs, and other non-drinking, non-restaurant spaces are becoming popular spots for dating and making new friends.
Walk into a gym on a Saturday morning. It's buzzing with energy. Fitness classes, from spinning to yoga, are perfect icebreakers. You sweat together, laugh together, and before you know it, you're cheering each other on.
Running clubs are another great example. There's something special about running with others. You fall into a rhythm, matching each other's pace, sharing the highs and lows of the run. Post-run coffee meetups turn into real friendships, built on shared goals and mutual support. Every week we see the ever-growing stampede through Ancoats as they approach their well-earned Cutting Room Square drink. Exercise as a social gathering, in the flesh.
But it’s not just about gyms and running. New "third places" are popping up all over. Even workspaces, the typical second place, are merging with third places via co-working and community spaces for the lucky remote workers among us us. I'd generally try and avoid quoting Adam Neumann (formerly of WeWork) and the Apple TV dramatisation of his company, but there really are many people who don't just want to make a living - they want to make a life.
Outdoor adventure groups are also gaining traction. Hiking, rock climbing, and other activities attract those looking for a bit of excitement and new connections. There's nothing like the bond formed while navigating a tough trail or climbing a steep rock face together. With the Peak District and Lake District on our cities doorstep, who can blame us for making the most?
Traditional third places are having a resurgence too. Central Library and the John Rylands are favourites for students and non-students alike when looking for some solitude amongst others.